Being yourself with Russian girl when you date is really important and should be at the forefront of your mind. This does not mean that you should not make the best of yourself; in fact you should most definitely make the best of yourself. You owe this much to both your date and yourself after all. When we meet Russian girl for the first time it can be quite terrifying. Sometimes it is even worse the second time. We are immediately in conflict between many emotions and fear, particularly the fear of rejection, is one of the major ones. In order to overcome this fear of rejection we are tempted to create a false persona.
We subconsciously believe that this will benefit us in two ways: firstly, we think that this invented self is an improvement on our real self or we would not have invented it in the first place, and secondly, if this false self does get rejected after all, then, well it was not we ourselves that got rejected after all, it was merely the invention. Thus our ego is preserved. Often this false self will be seen through by our date with Russian girl very quickly.
It is not easy for most people to keep this up for a long period of time. If it is seen through, then we will be thought of as superficial, artificial, and even a downright liar. You wouldn’t want that now would you? If we are not seen through, and everything goes great, then what will you do? How do you let your date, the one who you now really like, know that you have been feeding him or her lot of untruths and exaggerations? Both ways you are on to a looser. So how do you keep it real? How do you just be yourself with Russian girls?
Well, first you have to believe in yourself. As I said above this really involves making the very best of yourself. For instance make sure you have plenty of time to get ready so that you can indulge yourself in preparation: an excuse to get that new pair of shoes girls, and guys, go and get that expensive looking haircut you have been thinking about vaguely. Social status is another bugbear. This particularly refers to the male of the species. Who wouldn’t like to be more successful than we actually are? If my job is delivering the post, and I want to be a senior executive, then do not look at this as a negative as in that “I only deliver the post” but see it as a positive in that “Yes, I currently deliver the post but I am ambitious and aim to climb the corporate ladder”.
But if you are happy in your job of delivering the post that is fine too. Just believe in who you are and what you do and Russian girl will believe in it too. A final tip for you Russian girls: to be yourself when you date does not mean immediately telling your date everything about yourself all at once. What it means is being the kind gentle person you know you really are. It also means doing the one thing that guys really want which, despite whatever they may say or think, is being listened to. So, look good, be honest, and listen. Be yourself when you date, you can’t go wrong.